Did it ever occur to you how fragile and unpredicatable life can be?
My best cousin's father jus got stomache cancer. Recently had a stomache operation to remove 75% of the stomache to prevent the cancer cells from spreading. Seeing relatives in this state often send aches in our hearts. Esp when tears start rollings, heads bow down, palm to palm holding every fingers together praying.
This is life. It teaches us to balance our life out. Its not all about how many millions, cars, straight As we can get in life. Its about how meaningful did we live throughout.
We often talk about people with big EGO, they desire for big achivements. Getting highly paid jobs, big cars, big family. Thats a sucessful man! Correct. Logically its never wrong. But how short life can be, we all know about it well enough. We cant bring CASH , CARS, HOUSES to our grave. But we can leave good memories in people's heart by the actions we did when alive. Thats wad i mean by bring meaningful things with you when you're gone.
But its easier said then done. Then again, nothing is impossible.
Lets get the fundamental stuffs down first.
It's learning to let go stuffs in life.
wadever other stuffs.
In life nothing is forever.
Be happy that certain things you once had. Because others may not even had the chance to have it in his/her lifetime.
When you falldown, learn to stand up again. It may be an uphill battle, but if you try you will not lose. Friends are with you. But can they last forever? heh. very unlikely. Jus learn to treasure wad you had in life. Simple and easy.
There was this rich fucking old 91years old bastard with a few days left of his life to live.
So he called his wife mary who is in her 30s to give her the last piece of instruction before he left. He told her that he wants all of his property to be converted to cash and to be kept in a box and bury with him when he's dead 6 feet under.
Then at the funeral, mary place a box into the coffin of the old man. Then after the cermony, all her friends came to confront her about how much did she placed inside the box.
Mary said :" Everything".
All her friends went :" GOSH , are you CRAZY OR SOMETHING?"