Inspiration strike when i was chatting 5 minutes ago!
I realised in everyone of us. There's a limit on our mental toughness. Sometimes the things we heard , the things we seen , the things we felt , the things we do doesnt seems to please us! And a little by a little , it starts to irritate us. Since the amount of irritation is low , it all gather and stored into our mind , piece by piece , a little by a little. Things goes outta hand , irritation increased and soon , we blow.
I call this the mind tensile experiment!
There are unlimited examples to give in life .. jus to name a few.
Work Money. Studies. Time. Relationship.
When working, your boss always throw all the dirty stuffs to you. Unfinished work , tough matters , dirty work. Any little things that could be handle within a few minutes are passed to you to handle too. Having the extra workload on hand + your orginal workload jus adds up to your mental tensile toughness. One day, you could take all the shit he's been giving out , you blow up and quit.
Money. You got friends who you often loan money too, time and time again. But your friends took advantage of your willingness and borrow lots more and not returning at all , or not on time when you need money on urgent matters. You blow up , friendship goes down the drain. That's another mental tesile toughness.
Studies. Each day, you work hard. Awfully hard , your friends put in 2hours of everyday to study for the upcoming test, while you put in 5-6hours per day without resting for the whole term jus to score well , and once results are back, you didnt get the grades you wanted for, and worst is that you failed the test. You blow up and gave up, quit school. That's another mental tesile toughness.
Time. You wait for your boyfriend , time and time again. Whenever he's got breaks , whenever he finishes school , whenever he needs to do projects, handle extra stuffs, whenever you go for dates , whenever whereever you go , its waiting and waiting. Its damn tiring when waiting is part and parcel of your life nowadays , knowing that you wasted enough time for all those waiting which could always put into some better joyful moments. You blow up, there goes the relationship. That's another mental tesile toughness.
Relationship. Time and time again , both parties often quarrels and not giving in. Relationship turns sour , each day passes , the lesser time spend together. As days goes by , feelings fade ... Holding on to the relationship , handling other matters , testing the mental tesile toughness all in one area , all in one period , jus breaks down everything. When the mental tensile toughness reaches its climax , it breaks! There goes another mental tesile toughness test. =)
So , who on earth have the best mental tesile toughness strength ?
God knows : D
Sweet dreams , every cute folks!
p/s ( I need a sunbathe to clear off the stress and restart my mental toughness again =D )